Are you a therapist?
No. I am a faith-based relational specialist. Unlike traditional psychotherapy, this form of biblical counseling does not remain aloof or detached from our clients. You are free to share your life with us and we are free to reciprocate. We also do not consult the DSM, diagnose any disfunction, or prescribe mental health treatment. Rather, we find that most "disfunction" is the result of design conflicts. As someone learns to understand their own design as well as that of other people, the behaviors typically associated with disfunction tend to improve.
How do you do what you do?
In short, by listening. Through listening, it is possible to discern some of the major design characteristics that someone has. Through listening in a participatory fashion, we strive to ensure that someone doesn't just "feel" understood but that we truly do have an accurate understanding of their design and desires.
Are you a Christian company?
Yes, unapologetically so. This company would not exist without a calling from the Holy Spirit and we will not dishonor that legacy by hiding our true nature. We do not discriminate against anyone seeking our services. You should be aware, however, that any assistance we provide is going to be from a Christian perspective. If that is not for you, we thank you for your interest but respectfully suggest that we might not be the right fit for you.
Why Lighthouse?
That's a fair question (particularly as we're not exactly near the ocean here in Montana). Lighthouses are often seen as protectors and guardians of those who are lost or in peril. They create a fixed reference point in the dark or storm that a ship can navigate by. Similarly, Christ is the fixed point by which we can navigate the storms of life. He gives us the freedom to make our own choices but He’s always there if we choose to look. As He is the center of everything we do at BLC, it seems appropriate to recognize it in our branding. It is our hope that we can help to equip you with the skills and knowledge you will need in order to withstand the storms of life.
Why don't you meet with female clients one on one?
This policy exists for the mutual protection of the ministry's reputation as well as that of the clients. By never meeting in isolation, both parties are shielded from accusations of impropriety or marital unfaithfulness. Under most circumstances, my wife will be present with all female clients but in special circumstances alternative arrangements can be made should a different third-party witness be desired.